Showing posts with label marc. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marc. Show all posts

Friday, July 3, 2009

After many days

Written on a bus, June 21st 2009, typed on an airplane July 3rd, 2009

This week we decided to forgo one of us making the 6.5 hour car drive between Ithaca and Cranberry Land, and opt for both of us making a 4-5 bus ride to meet in NYC.
We stayed at Wolly & Marc's who have been featured on this blog this before. However since that time the two seriously upgraded their host-ability, moving from a cute yet small apartment to a 2 bedroom castle in the sky. Well, it's a 2 bedroom apartment on the 3rd floor above an Italian restaurant in Midtown Manhattan, but it could not be cooler.
I love New York. I think that even had I spent the entire weekend inside, I would still be happy just knowing that the city was out there.
Needless to say, we didn't stay inside the whole weekend. We went to a cool Asian-fusion place that was nice though over priced (the prices seemed reasonable, but the dishes were super small). Of course, we also went for dim-sum because I can't be in the city without eating a steamed pork bun. We also went food shopping and cooked a really nice meal for ourselves and for our hosts . Pictures to come when I get them from Marc.
Sunday there was an event in Central Park called Tel-Aviv Beach comes to NYC (or something like that). Having finished dim sum with Wolly, Marc and Dani & Gil and with nothing better to do before saying goodbye, we all decided to check it out. It was quite a walk from the park entrance to where it was, and on the way we saw a group of people in a pro-Palestinian march (More on this later). Between the walk, the march, and the humidity we started developing some sense of anticipation. BUT when we got there, it was a little ridiculous sand box. We stayed all of 5 minutes and then turned around and walked back to the apartment.
A note on the pro-Palestinian march, as promised: A strange little thing – about 10 people, mostly white American women, and maybe 2 people who looked like they might be of actual Palestinian decent. They were walking around the park, a distinct scent of pot following them shouting “Free Palestine” and “Long Live Palestine”. A bit simplistic, but you really can't blame them for that. My main “beef' with them was the lack of creativity. I would be very surprised to find out that they actually made the news somewhere. And I say – if your trigger is a Tel Aviv beach party, why not counter with a Gaza Beach scene featuring corpses and a few homeless people?Someone, I won't say who, suggested that they also could have dug a tunnel from that beach to the edge of the park.
Now I'm on the bus back to Boston. I'm on the infamous “China Bus” that goes between the China-towns of the two cities. This bus ride has given me a few tidbits to write about too. The first was the throwback to the rabid capitalism of China that I had right from the first minute I stepped in China-town. First, a China Bus woman standing close to where I got off the cab made me pay for my ticket to Boston in order to get an explanation as to where the Boston bus station is. Then, on the bus, the driver made a woman pay the full ticket price for her baby, because the baby was taking up a seat. Then, finally, on the way to Boston, the driver stopped at a Burger King that the bus company had cut a deal with. Since most of the people on the bus did actually order something the pit-stop took longer than planned. This made the driver mad, and he proceeded to threaten to leave, making one BK employee ran out to make sure that the bus does not leave before everyone gets their flood.
Another little bus inspired story has to do with bus etiquette. Across the isle from me is the only foursome sit on the bus (the kind with a table in the middle). Lucky enough, they are all friendly type people and so they keep talking. And the thing is, that I'm having a very hard time not listening in. So I know that 2 of them are french, one grew up in Israel and then the 4th guy just sort of seems like a dush . He keeps asking annoying questions, and making stupid remarks to try to up play the fact that he lived in Paris. One example is that he said something along the lines of “Let me see if I remember this” and then proceeded to recite all the lines of t RER with their letters and destination stations What's really annoying is that I keep having the urge to butt into the conversation. Initially I held myself back, misanthropically not wanting to talk to 4 random people that I won't ever meet again (especially not the dush). The thing is that beyond the Israeli thing, they kept talking about food! And the french people keep getting stuck on words, which then becomes a guessing game – but I know exactly what she wants to say! Things like she kept saying “sous vide” trying to explain that something is in vacuum or she couldn't remember the name “Grand Mariner” when the Israeli girl referred to a crepe she ate that was lit up.
I finally broke when the dush was trying to remember the name of a very sweet bread he liked. After a few rounds of them trying to guess, I just said “brioche, he means brioche!”

Monday, August 11, 2008

The Wedding

So the weekend is over, we said goodbye to our friends, and now it really begins.
Well, sort of - I'm on a bus on the way to Ithaca while Uri is still in NYC with our friends. Tomorrow they are going to 6 Flags - Great adventure, home of the Kinda Ka. Of all the things I'm missing out on, I think this is the one I'm most jealous of.
This weekend was all about Marc and Wolly's wedding. It was probably the biggest wedding I've been to, not in terms of the amount of people (no one can compete with Israelis there), but it terms of production.
The wedding began on Thursday with the rehearsal dinner that took place in the basement floor of a cool place called The Smith.
The wedding itself was Friday night. We both got dressed up. For Uri this meant wearing a suit for the first time. I think that I can objectively say that the suit suited him well, but I'll add a picture so you can judge for yourselves.

The venue was Tribeca Rooftop and it was amazing. When we got there it was still light out, but as the cocktail hour(s) went on the sun set and all the while we had an awe inspiring view of the Hudson and the Brooklyn skyline. The food was fabulous (and plentiful). Opening cocktail included, a cheese bar (with an amazing aged cheddar), a cold seafood bar, a sushi bar, a martini bar and an alcohol bar. Even the peanuts at the bar were great. Afterward there was a buffet that featured an amazing Chilean Sea-bass (I'm pretty sure it was marinated in milk) and pork-chops (I think) which I didn't try, but I'm told were really good too.
There was a fantastic three tier wedding cake and assorted tarts and truffles for dessert. Marc and Wolly will have to forgive me that I'm not describing every little thing in detail, but if I do this post will never end. If you really want to know, your can check out their blog Gromzilla & I, maybe they will have it there. Add for those of you that want the story in picture's you can check out Lior's Flickr page (besides the batteries in our camera ran out, we were too lazy to bring in to all these events - it didn't really go with the suit).
Anyway, back to the important stuff - the ceremony way beautiful mainly because of the beautiful vows Marc wrote for Wolly and the funny (yet still touching) vows Wolly wrote for Marc. The ceremony was presided by a reform (woman) Rabbi who reminded me of a character in a movie, but I still can't place my finger on exactly who. Her part of the ceremony was a bit strange to me, since she kept going back and forth between speaking in English and blessing/singing in Hebrew. There is a certain sacredness that comes from the fact that to American Jews, Hebrew is the language of the holy texts, and not an everyday language. In Israel we understand every word said by itself. Thus a single word might start a random line of thought or a line can be played with, its meaning changed (like Yehuda Amichai did in El Male Rachamim). Here it was different, Hafrada Bein Kodesh Le'Chol.
Of course there was also speeches, dancing, and the obligatory video montage AND also something called a Mazinka. I would appreciate any information any of you have on this thing. Apparently, the Mazinka in a Jewish-American tradition that celebrates the wedding of the last child. The proud parents (who now don't have to worry about who the kids are going to bring home) sit with floral writhes on their head while their family and friends dance around them. Strange but true.
I will say again that it was THE wedding. I know that Americans have different standard than Israelis, and if we continue to live here, we'll probably be invited to other impressive weddings, but I doubt any will match this one. It's all in the details, and Wolly and Marc (I assume especially Marc) paid a lot of attention to a lot of details - from the "save the date" magnets, to the decor, to the suits they wore, and the outfits they changed into after the ceremony, all the way to the Bagelworks muffins that waited for the guests when we exited the venue.
Oh - and on Saturday there was brunch at a Dim Sum place in Chinatown called Golden Unicorn.
I'm getting tiered of writing, I can only imagine how the two of you who really got all the way here are tiered of reading, so in bullets - things we did in the city, in between the wedding events, while saying goodbye to our friends (mainly food related):
- Friday: Went to Houston's to eat the grilled chicken salad. Uri claims it's worth the $16. I'm not sure I agree, but it is very good. Conclusion: Don't trust Eitan's uncle when he calls something a "diner".
- Saturday: Went jogging in Central Park: I'm really proud of myself, I kept up with Uri and Eitan (who didn't even brake a sweat) as we ran through the park a whole hour.
- Saturday: Went with all the friends (sans grooms) to Hill Country. Cool BBQ place meant for menly-men.

Now, as I said in the beginning, I'm on the bus to Ithaca. It started raining before, but now it stopped. The driver keeps stopping by the side of the road (literally, on the side of the road, not in rest-stops) to go to the toilet. Hopefully I'll be home in an hour.